I’ve never been into BDSM, at all, I always liked being the one who fucked girls and have nice sex in missionary, be romantic and flirty, just a regular vanilla guy, I’ve also never been a submissive, or spanked or flogged, I’ve never been into being tied up and restrained, even less pegged, I used to take care about my ass too much. But that was the old me, it all changed when I met Dahlia.
When we started dating Dahlia seemed like the kind of girl you would want to introduce to your parents. I guess I’m pretty conservative though, but that was the impression she gave me at first. She was always very nice and gentle, until the time to go to bed came up. I’m used to being romantic in bed, and when we walked into the bedroom, I started kissing her, she even followed my lead but something was a bit off, I couldn’t make her cum at all and I felt useless.
She insisted she enjoyed it, and it was very nice to have something different for a change, but when I started digging deeper, she confessed to me she was into Femdom, that she liked dominating men and that it truly could make her wet, as well as desired and empowered, it gave her all the things she didn’t have in her regular life.
As I said, I’ve never been into BDSM, and I’ve never imagined myself in a submissive role at all, but I was curious, I truly liked Dahlia and I wanted to please her too, the thought of her releasing a beautiful orgasm with me was something that never left my mind since our first time together. So, I started doing my research, and I told Dahlia that despite not being into it, I wanted to try it, for her, I wanted to see if it was something I could actually like because I truly liked her.
I think Dahlia started taking me seriously when I told her that I was open to it and that’s when my training started. Of all the things I had to learn, the hardest one was to actually surrender, leave any kind of control out of yourself, and learn to trust the master, Dahlia in this case. I’ve been a little control freak in many spheres of my life so achieving this little part was a bit hard.
Dahlia started training me by taking control of my orgasms, that was the first thing we tried. Whenever we were together, she started jerking me off, taking control of my cock and my body sensations, all I had to do was let go of myself and allow her to use me.
She would jerk me off nicely at first, then increase speed, and right when I felt about to cum, she would stop completely, I have to say, being jerked off like this was very exciting, it just made that final orgasm so much better, Dahlia continued to edge me for a while, each time she would edge me more and more and then allow me to cum, and then she would just edge me and send me home.
I started jerking off at home, thinking of our sessions, but when I told her that I was doing this she punished me, I hated this part. She told me I couldn’t have any orgasms without her permission, so she ordered me to get a chastity cage, and after edging me several times, she caged my cock. Having that thing on my cock was very uncomfortable, I didn’t enjoy it at all, and keeping it clean was also a pain in the ass. But then I would see her, she would let me out of it and tease me until I couldn’t anymore.
I realized that when she started controlling my orgasm, I became more devoted to her, like a servant, I realized I was more willing to do anything she would say to me just for the reward of being free for a couple of minutes. I started becoming a real submissive, then she started ruining my orgasms which made me more flexible to her, she was breaking me.
Dahlia learned about my fantasies, which are not crazy, but she also learned about the things that make me feel humiliated. She started using that against me, and the more shame I felt, the more arousal I felt, is a weird thing but this has truly opened me to explore other things I never thought capable of. She would often force me to be naked around the house while she was fully clothed, and she would even make me give her an orgasm while I was caged.
Dahlia consistently talked sexy to me, keeping me aroused all the time, in pain, with huge blue balls, making me desperate for a release and that’s when she started using my back door. She bought me a plug and made me wear it for a while as she forced me to lick her folds. Then she started tying me up and gagging me, putting vibrators right on my caged cock. The kind of pleasure I felt from all this has no comparison, I’ve never imagined I could feel so many things while being used, it was just so different and so exciting.
Lately, Dahlia has been training my butt, she started using a strapon on me, with small vibrators and dildos, to bigger ones, and she has done this so slowly, I’ve never been fucked before, I always thought it would hurt badly but Dahlia has been gentle with me, she would always work my ass before pushing anything inside. The first time she fucked my ass I couldn’t help but have a painful orgasm with a flaccid caged cock, it just sent me straight into climax.
Of course, Dahlia punished me, but I enjoyed it so much. I’ve never had anything like this with my previous girlfriends, I never even imagined myself being submissive to any girl, on the contrary, I always thought I would be the lead in the bedroom, but this has completely changed my perspective on everything, this has truly made me open to explore things I never thought I would, for preconceptions I had or simply because I didn’t find them interesting. But this has been a life changer.
Tasmin I love femdom. But have never found a true Mistress in my 61yr old pathetic life keep up the wonderful stories. Just enjoyed this chastity one